Today we intend to build on the foundation laid yesterday. Take this walk with me, please.

Endurance requires that we deal with trials and tribulations in healthy ways. Our mindset comes into sharp focus at this juncture.

What is a mindset?

“A mindset is a belief that orients the way we handle situations- the way we sort out what is going on and what should be done.” Psychology Today

What type of mindset do you have? What type of mindset have your children? You could take the mindset test at

https://www.mindsetonline.com/testyourmindset/step1.php

Your children could do the test too.

Our mindset is integral in helping us to identify opportunities. On the other hand, mindset can also trap us and cause us to function in cycles that are self -defeating.

I am saying that challenging situations can become opportunities. It is as the result of challenging situations that some of us found our life’s passion, career, calling, ministry and even business opportunities. It must be noted keenly that similar challenging situations have caused others to lose hope, lost their minds, lose direction and their sense of self even to the point of committing suicide.

How our children will persevere depends greatly on their mindset.

Tasks

Look at the result of the mindset test that you and your children did. Whatever the result is commit it to the Lord.

Pray for your children. Cry out to God on their behalf today.

Pray that they will not be defeated by trial and obstacles but will use them as stepping stones.

Hug them and prophesy the Word of God over them as it is written in Philippians 4:13 … Can do all things through Christ who strengthens them.

This Friday, May 18th will be celebrated in Jamaica as National Child’s Day. Make an investment into your children. Get them gifts that will affirm them.

Have a productive day .

via Affirm Me Day 14

Endurance

Philippians 4:13

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

The world is so much bigger than our homes, yet, in our homes, there may be obstacles, difficulties, trials and tribulations for us as well as for our children.  Since endurance leads to growth in hope and character, as adults we need to model this value in our environment for our children to emulate.

We have many or maybe too many testimonies of moments when we did not endure unpleasant moments and or difficult circumstances got the better of us.  It begs us to sympathise with each other since we might not have learnt how to persevere.  With that said, we want our children to develop the tenacity to outlast challenges.

We could begin by teaching our children to memorise Philippians 4:13.  Today is a good day to read the affirmation on page 29 in  Affirmation for Values and Character Development by Tanisha Graham with your children.

See you tomorrow.

Auntie Nats

Glam-moms

Proverbs 11:16

“A kindhearted woman gains respect…”

Being a woman is such an exciting thing. When we were little girls we probably would have engaged in role-plays being a woman too many times to remember until we achieved the status.

When we got there we realised that there was yet another journey-motherhood.

I may not be the first to congratulate you today on being a mother, however, I am honoured to do it just the same. CONGRATULATION!

The scripture above highlights that you are a woman of grace, favour and charm. How sweet! Above all, you are a mother.

I declare God’s continued blessing on you. You will enjoy the fruit of your labour. God’s got you.

Have an amazing day.

Auntie Nats

What a journey it has been thus far! How have you been coping? We are at an inflection point today. You have encountered quite a bit of information and have had numerous tasks to complete. I am sensing that you need to review a post or two today. You know the one or the ones that resonated but you had not had enough time to do all you could or what was suggested.

God is ever faithful. He is also the God of second chances. If you need clarity in any area, I will only be too willing to serve you. My great joy is being your servant.

Parent’s Prayer

Lord, I am thankful for the children you have given me. You are my Present Help. Help me to look to You consistently for all I need to build children that will last.

I surrender my know-hows for Your wisdom. May I choose to walk in the Spirit and not in the flesh. Master Teacher, teach me to do your will. I am desperate for You.

Cause me to hear joy and gladness and may the bones that have been broken rejoice, amen.

If you have not yet accepted the gift of redemption, that is, you hadn’t had the chance to accept God’s love for you and to serve Him faithfully with all your heart, today is a great day to do so.

Please know that you are loved by Him regardless of your deeds. The truth is that while we were sinners He died for us. He has never demanded that we become better to earn His love.

Jesus in my life has made all the difference.

I am also available to continue the conversation about your salvation. I am an ordained minister of the gospel.

Special thanks

Help me thank our guest blogger, Mrs. Lorraine Rainford, for her contribution yesterday.

Reminders

This book will be released tomorrow. Go ahead and pre-order it now. Thanks. These affirmations can be used by you as well as your children.

Jabneh Christian Academy is now registering for the new term.

Have a productive day.

Auntie Nats

Built to Last

Yesterday we looked at character training as a tool to build children that will last. As was previously stated, there are other important tenets involved in building children that will last.

Today I am sharing my friend with you. She is the contributor/author of today’s article. Please receive Mrs Lorraine Rainford. She desires to see Jamaicans live healthier so that we can live out our pledge to advance the welfare of the whole human race. This desire resulted in her being trained by the Integrative Institute of Nutrition in New York to be an Integrative Nutrition Health Coach. Here, she explored different pathways to healthy eating and wellness and is Inspired to help mothers and wives make better food choices for themselves and their families, within the ambit of what is available in our country.

Here she goes!

“Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. For I was very glad when brethren came and testified to your truth, that is, how you are walking in truth. I have no greater joy than this, to hear of my children walking in the truth.”
3 John 1:2‭-‬4 NASB
https://bible.com/bible/100/3jn.1.2-4.NASB

Being in good health simply means giving the body the key nutrients it needs; the carbohydrates the proteins and the fats in the right amount at the right times.

This also means providing all the essential vitamins and minerals. For growing children- and this also means teens-, these micronutrients are necessary for optimal growth and development.

These essential vitamins and minerals such as calcium, iron, zinc, protein, B12, help to build strong bones and healthy tissue and muscle and can only be had from food.

A good diet can protect your children from everyday illnesses and improve their ability to retain knowledge. What is more is, it has a striking impact on their health throughout adolescence and adulthood.

Consuming nutritious foods help children and teens grow and develop, to do well academically. It encourages a healthy emotional life; causing them to feel good about themselves.
Foods that are rich in essential nutrients, even help to prevent child and teen issues such as eating disorders, obesity, dental cavities and iron deficiency anemia.

As stewards of these our precious gifts, we need to do our absolute best, with the resources we have, to provide all they need to prosper, in every area of their lives. They cannot do that without good health.

Fruits, vegetables ( including callaloo or other dark green leafy vegetables) WATER, Omega 3 oils, complex carbohydrates like yellow yams, sweet potatoes, pumpkin, corn on the cob, fish caught in the sea and/or rivers should be included in the diet daily.

If as adults, we struggle, to prepare and consume enough of these foods, then our children will too, and they will suffer for it. Experts have said that this is the first generation that will die before their parents. Already we can see more and more children that are obese or overweight, that are diabetic and hypertensive. Children with acid reflux who lack fibre and who miss meals regularly.

A steady diet of sugar laden drinks and packaged foods and hormone-fed protein, will compromise your child’s immune system and can predispose him to being labelled hyperactive or cause her to suffer from Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD). This kind of diet can also lead to our daughters experiencing irregular periods and an inability to get pregnant when that time comes.

There is not enough space in this blog to share the unfortunate side effects of a poor diet. But I must mention that the lack of physical exercise compounds a diet lacking in the essential nutrients.

Let us encourage our children to play outside again. Playing football, cricket, “stucky” and climbing trees. Go for walks in your neighbourhood together or access one of the hundreds of exercise videos on YouTube after dinner.

“Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6 NASB
In this case, teaching children to be discriminate in their food choices from an early age, will put the foundation in place for a body and mind that will always be up to the tasks ahead.

Mrs. Rainford can be reached at lorrainerainfordis@coachlorr.com.jm

Built to Last

Romans 8: 37

” but in all these we more than conquer, through him who loved us;”

You may not be an expert in civil engineering or baking a cake. From the civil engineer to the baker, they want their structures to last. The engineer might choose steel while the baker may choose some form of preservative.

Parents are engineers with the primary responsibility to train up children in the way they should go. In other words, build up children that will last.

It becomes particularly complicated and intricate for the parent engineer since the building plan is not static, rather, it changes drastically every few months and demands different approaches and reliance on the Chief Architect continuously.

The civil engineer wants his structures to withstand all types of disaster be it natural or man-made. For us parents or caregivers, we want our children to be able to withstand all forms of disasters as well.

There are many aspects to be built to achieve this. Today I want to focus on character building. Unfortunately, our children are not born with impeccable character. They like us were born in sin and shapen in iniquity. We should not undermine the efficacy of character training.

Here is a link to help you with character training.

https://amotherfarfromhome.com/character-training-strength/

Thanks again for your time. We have 21 more days to go. I trust that you have been able to snatch a few moments to do these activities daily.

Auntie Nats @ Jabneh Christian Academy.

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Those Words!

1 Corinthians 15:33

Do not be misled. “Bad company corrupts good character.” NIV

It is possible to become the company we keep. Therefore, we must be deliberate to choose our company wisely. There are many ways we can be impacted by our associations. However, we want to look at the influence of conversations.

Conversations can impact our belief system, our conduct, the plans for our lives, our need for God and so much more.

There is no place for nonchalance; our children need to be influenced and empowered to choose friends that are not destructive.

We have already looked at training our children to speak words that will build up others. They now need to know what to do when they encounter those who are not so trained and who will use words in an attempt to destroy them.

Let us do this!

1. Proverbs 26:2 reminds us that “curses cannot harm us unless we deserve them. ” Curses we do not deserve will fly away like birds. Having known who they are, our children will be resolute, skillful and discerning. They will not believe all that is said about them or to them from malicious tongues. Of course, we know that even the strongest will need some assistance to process the episodes. We need to be available to hear our children and to have the right responses.

2. Isaiah 54:17 ” No weapon formed against thee shall prosper and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn.” The tongue is a deadly weapon but the consolation is, it shall not prosper when it comes to us, against our children.

Gather your children and affirm them with these statements.

A. No one will be able to injure you by words and accusations.

B. Should controversy, reproach and accusations arise, you will be able ultimately to convince them of error and by the manifestation of the truth, condemn them.

C. You shall be delivered from the:

1. strife of tongues.

2. threatenings and boasts of the evil one.

C. The wicked shall not prevail against you by violence, nor by pretenses of justice.

D. Your heritage is truth and victory of which you shall not be denied.

AMEN

Thanks again for your time. See you tomorrow.

Tell all your friends that Jabneh Christian Academy is now registering for the school year 2018-2019.

Natasha Francis-Campbell

Auntie Nats

Proverbs 13: 20

Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.

The verse begins by saying, ” Whoever walks with..” Already there is an intimation of fellowship, relationship, friendship, attachment or companionship.

At most, everyone desires company. Our choice of company may be directed by agreeableness of character and disposition.

Of course, we desire that our children will choose to walk with the wise. Walking with the wise will result in the improvement of conversation, lifestyle practices and moral character.

The ability to choose the companion of the wise rather than that of fools depends greatly on the moral foundation that would have been laid or not laid in our children.

Oh how our nation needs wise children! If we culture wise children, we will reap wise leaders in every sector. We will have a proliferation of wise parents when they procreate.

I do hope that you had the chance to give thought to the possibility of developing your children’s moral vocabulary.

Today is “Read Aloud Day”. How about writing an affirmation for your Children and have them read it aloud.

If you are not into that kind of creativity just now, here is an excerpt from Tanisha Graham’s book – Affirmations for Values & Character Development to be released on Mother’sDay, Sunday, May 13th on Amazon.

NOBILITY

I am noble.

This means: I am upright and decent.

I am a good person.

I take the high road.

My attitude and my conduct are above reproach.

I have pure thoughts about myself and others.

I do not hold on to contaminated or selfish motives.

My intentions are wholesome.

My heart remains pure.

I am appropriate in my conversations and in the way I conduct myself.

I pursue that which is right and fair.

Even in my thoughts, I uphold that which adds value to my fellow human beings.

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