October 13,2025 | Rev. Dr. Natasha Francis-Campbell, author of Parenting with Wisdom: Avoidiing the way of Fools
I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow.
1 Corinthians 3:6 (NIV)

Every good garden begins with a seed, but before that seed can thrive, someone must plant it. In the same way, every child’s development begins at home with the parents. God has entrusted mothers and fathers with the sacred role of planting the first seeds of character, faith, and learning. These are the earliest lessons a child ever receives. Lessons spoken not only through words but also through daily interactions, love, and example.
The home is the first classroom, and parents are the first teachers. Before a child can hold a pencil or recognise a number, they have already absorbed so much from the environment created by their parents. From the tone of your voice to the way you handle frustration, your child is learning. These moments form the fertile soil where seeds of trust, curiosity, and self-worth are planted.
Research supports what Scripture already teaches. According to the Cleveland Clinic, early child development occurs across multiple domains — physical, cognitive, emotional, social, and moral. Each domain requires intentional nurturing. The Tanoto Foundation also highlights that early stimulation and caregiving play a vital role in shaping a child’s character and lifelong outlook. Every bedtime story, every shared prayer, every word of encouragement becomes part of that sacred process of planting.
Then, as children grow, teachers and caregivers come alongside to water what was planted. The role of educators is not to replace the parent, but to complement and strengthen what began at home. When a teacher celebrates your child’s progress, corrects with patience, or encourages creative thinking, they are watering the seeds of potential you’ve already sown. Together, parents and teachers form a partnership designed by God, each one working in alignment with His purpose.
Still, even as we plant and water, the verse reminds us of a truth we must never forget: “God gives the increase.” Growth, the transformation of a tender seed into a flourishing tree, belongs to Him alone. Parents may sometimes feel anxious or discouraged when progress seems slow or when challenges arise, but we must rest in the assurance that God is at work beneath the surface, even when we cannot see it.
Our responsibility is faithfulness. Faithful planting. Faithful watering. Faithful praying. God’s responsibility is fruitfulness. He alone breathes life into what we nurture.
Dear parent, never underestimate the power of your influence. The seeds you plant today, seeds of faith, kindness, discipline, and perseverance, will bear fruit in due time. Whether your child becomes a scientist, an artist, or a leader, it is the values and love sown early that will guide their growth. Your role is not small; it is sacred. You are the planter in God’s garden of generations.
Therefore, continue to speak words of life over your child. Continue to model love and patience. Continue to trust God’s process, even through tears and uncertainty. As you plant, know that others, teachers, caregivers, mentors, and friends will come along to water. Yet, only God can bring the increase that turns potential into purpose.
Reflection Prayer for Parents
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for entrusting us with the gift of parenthood and the privilege of planting seeds in the hearts of our children.
Teach us to plant with love, to nurture with wisdom, and to trust You with the results.
Help us to create homes filled with peace, learning, and faith, where our children can flourish in Your presence.
Bless the teachers and caregivers who come alongside us to water these seeds with care.
May we work together in unity and humility, knowing that You alone bring the growth.
Strengthen every parent who feels weary, and remind us that our labour in You is never in vain.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.








